Define love

I Corinthians 13:4 “Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.” In this entire chapter God defines love.  We have all told someone on this earth–I love you–what did you really mean?  When you tell God you love Him, –what do you mean?  Can you love someone and not be patient, kind, concerned for their well being more than yourself?  When you love–you are more concerned for the one you love than you are for yourself.  Now, who do you love?