Define love

I Corinthians 13:5 “It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” Can you say you have the 4 traits described in this passage?  Do you or I try to understand the other person without placing ourselves as being more important?  Being concerned for those we love and showing that love through our behavior is another important trait in the definition of love.